Superbly Single

I’ve never been the type of woman who needed to be a relationship to feel complete. As I mentioned before, my life did not turn out exactly like I had envisioned it as a child, but who cares?! My life is great! Being single and forty-something is right where I need to be. It is truly liberating! I love feeling emotionally strong and independent, intensely focused and completely exhilarated by my work.

Being alone is not a precursor for loneliness. Never do I feel at a loss for companionship with my network of fabulous friends, and the close relationships I have with my family members - not to mention the company of my furry, four-legged child, Mia. My life feels complete.

As a single woman I have so many opportunities for personal and professional growth. My goals are clearly defined and there are no compromises to be made as I move toward the fulfillment of my dreams. There is no one I must consult before making decisions, and no one to hold me back other than myself. My strength and independence will make me a much better partner in business and life.

I am not opposed to being in a relationship with someone special someday. It is my desire to find my soul mate. But it’s not something that I will ever chase after. I leave that in God’s hands and timing, as I am only interested in His best for my life. In the meantime, I expect that He has much for me to accomplish in my season of singleness. So I embrace this time, blaze my own trail and hopefully inspire other single women to follow suit. By working on developing myself intellectually, emotionally, spiritually and physically, when someday comes along I will be bringing my very best to the partnership and expect nothing less from my one true love.

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